She broke down in tears during Sunday night's explosive Married At First Sight commitment ceremony when she found out that her 'husband' Daniel Webb had been cheating on her with Jessika Power.
But during an interview on Monday, Tamara Joy said she didn't blame friend and fellow participant Martha Kalifatidis for not giving her the heads about their affair.
Speaking on the Kyle And Jackie O Show, the 30-year-old said, 'I have a great connection with Martha, but it's hard because I came in halfway through and she'd already formed a bond with Jess. So her loyalty lies there - I respect that.'
'I personally would've wanted to speak up': Tamara Joy (left) told Kyle Sandilands and Jackie 'O' Henderson on Monday that she didn't blame Martha Kalifatidis (right) for keeping quiet about her husband Daniel Webb's affair with Jessika Power
However, the jilted bride did reveal that had the tables been turned she would've made the decision to tell her friend what had been going on behind her back.
'I personally would've wanted to speak up,' Tamara explained when host Jackie 'O' Henderson asked if she felt 'betrayed' by her friend Martha.
But she hinted that producers would have banned participants from revealing any extra-marital activities too early.
'What you've got to remember is they're not allowed to say anything,' she told the shock jocks.
'If she's been told something in confidence and I'm supposed to be kept in the dark that would be really crap for the whole show.'
'He just wanted to hit it and quit it': But Tamara (left) did take a stab at her 'cheating' ex Daniel Webb (right) during an interview on the Kyle And Jackie O Show
However, Tamara was slightly less charitable when talking about her 'cheating' ex and his blonde lover on the radio show.
When quizzed on what Daniel hoped to get out of appearing on the show, she said, 'It's pretty apparent that he just really wanted to hit it and quit it, didn't he?'
And asked whether she had any idea of his dalliances during the dinner parties, Tamara flatly