Frankie Bridge has revealed her own guilt over having two children after her sister Victoria Cook candidly detailed her struggles to conceive.
The singer, 30, appeared on This Morning alongside her sister, who has previously had three miscarriages, where they discussed Victoria's decision to open up and post about her loss on Instagram.
Frankie said that she has struggled to find the right words when it comes to comforting her sister because she is already a mum to Parker, five, and Carter, three and didn't want to appear 'blasé'.
Opening up: Frankie Bridge has revealed her own guilt over having two children after her sister Victoria Cook candidly detailed her struggles to conceive
She said during the interview: 'It's been difficult to know what the right thing is to say wrongly or rightly because I do have two kids, I don't want to be quite blasé about it.
'But i know Tor doesn't feel like that, also she doesn't want me to feel oh I feel really sorry for you, you're quite practical. It's been quite hard.'
Victoria - who is affectionately known as Tor - said that people are usually quiet shocked when she tells them she has had three miscarriages as it isn't something that is widely spoken about.
Candid: The singer, 30, appeared on This Morning alongside her sister, who has previously had three miscarriages, where they discussed Victoria's decision to open up and post about her loss on Instagram
Finding the right words: Frankie said that she has struggled to find the right words when it comes to comforting her sister because she is already a mum to Parker, five, and Carter, three and didn't want to appear 'blasé'
She explained: 'Every time I tell people about it, I knew people that had one or two miscarriages, but I didn't know anyone that had three, so when it came to our third it hit home so much.
'When I tell people they're so shocked they can't believe it. No one really knows much about miscarriages so I was saw at home and I thought I need to talk about it somehow so I wrote it down and then I thought Instagram is the place where I have the most followers.'
Victoria admitted that posting about her experience has been like 'therapy' for her as she feels like sharing her own ordeal helps people to understand that they aren't alone.
She said during the interview: ' It's been difficult to know what the right thing is to say wrongly or rightly because I do have two kids, I don't want to be quite blasé about it
The freelance recruiter continued: 'I've been quite open about talking about it, but I think the response from people is quite hard, [but] if they can tell one person and it's me then I'm fine with that and I've tried to reply to everybody.'
She revealed that although she and her sister live in different countries she has been a huge support to her as she said that the siblings FaceTime 'all the time'.
Victoria, who lives in Bermuda, said: 'The second [miscarriage] happened when I arrived, getting used to a different country, not knowing anybody and registering those things was really hard.'
She added: 'But i know Tor doesn't feel like that, also she doesn't want me to feel oh I feel really sorry for you, you're quite practical. It's been quite hard'
Shock: Victoria - who is affectionately known as Tor - said that people are usually quiet shocked when she tells them she has had three miscarriages as it isn't something that is widely spoken about
Discussing her husband, she added: 'He is amazing he comes to everything with me he's so supportive, there's been no negativity around it at all. Frankie makes a really conscious effort to ask him at all.'
Frankie admitted that she was surprised that she had chosen to be so open about her experiences, as she is usually quite nonchalant about her emotions.
She confessed: 'I was really shocked she'd chosen to go down that route, she is quite chilled and laid-back with her emotions so although we're really close, I didn't really know how to approach her after that.'
Victoria explained: 'Every time I tell people about it, I knew people that had one or two miscarriages, but I didn't know anyone that had three, so when it came to our third it hit home so much'
She added: 'When I tell people they're so shocked they can't believe it. No one really knows much about miscarriages so I was saw at home and I thought I need to talk about it somehow so I wrote it down and then I thought Instagram is the place where I have the most followers'
Following Frankie's candid admission, Victoria mentioned her plans and concerns for the future: 'We're having tests done at the moment, I'm definitely going to go straight back into it and try again.
But it definitely leaves you scared and you overthink everything, but obviously in the back of your mind is it gonna happen again.
Victoria revealed she suffered her third miscarriage in a candid social media post last month, as she urged women to discuss their fertility struggles.
She shared a selfie, which was taken on the day she had surgery to end the miscarriage process, as she spoke about her experience.
Praising her sister's bravery at the time, Frankie shared the post as she encouraged her followers to help and support one another.
Candid: FVictoria revealed she suffered her third miscarriage in a candid social media post last month, as she urged women to discuss their fertility struggles
Alongside a picture of Victoria - affectionately dubbed Tor - she wrote: 'My awesome sister @torsandford has decided to do something so far out of her comfort zone and I’m so proud...
'She’s decided to open up about her troubles with miscarriage with the hope of helping others... it seems to be something people don’t feel like they can talk about...Yet so many have experienced...Are currently or will...
'Keep up to date with her journey...Send support and
