Dominic West's wife Catherine FitzGerald wants to leave the star

Friends of Dominic West’s wife say she’s ready to leave him after pictures of him on a romantic weekend with Lily James in emerged last month.

Friends says Catherine FitzGerald, 49, is ‘completely devastated’ at the prospect of her marriage being over as she’s ‘still mad about’ West, 51.

But they speculate that Catherine, who has four children with West, had grown tired of being an actor’s wife ‘with all that entails.’

'She's tired of being an actor's wife': Dominic West's wife Catherine FitzGerald wants to leave the star and 'move back to Ireland' following that Lily James scandal

'She's tired of being an actor's wife': Dominic West's wife Catherine FitzGerald wants to leave the star and 'move back to Ireland' following that Lily James scandal

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A friend told MailOnline: ‘He lives this other life where he’s away at least half the year and she and the kids are waiting for him.

‘She’s living in a house in England for his career when I think anyone who knows her knows she would much rather be home in Ireland.

‘The pictures of Dominic in show just how separate their lives have become.

‘Catherine is still mad about Dominic but it’s plainly not working. She’s been humiliated. Painful as it is, this looks like it could be the time to leave him.’

FitzGerald is currently holed up in her ancestral home of Glin Castle in county Limerick where he mother, Olda, still lives.

Sad: Friends says Catherine FitzGerald, 49, is ‘completely devastated’ at the prospect of her marriage being over as she’s ‘still mad about’ West, 51 after those pictures with Lily James

Sad: Friends says Catherine FitzGerald, 49, is ‘completely devastated’ at the prospect of her marriage being over as she’s ‘still mad about’ West, 51 after those pictures with Lily James 

She had been taking counsel from her and her two sisters, Honor and Nesta, with whom she is extremely close.

Another friend of the couple confirmed she was still at the castle and said that it was ‘hard to see a way back now’ for the marriage.

She and West took over the running of the castle two years ago and transformed it into an exclusive boutique getaway for A-listers. Taylor Swift rented it last Christmas.

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The friend claims FitzGerald is ‘absolutely determined’ to make a success of Glin Castle as a business.

‘She’s put her heart and soul into it, she’ a very talented landscape gardener and the place is beautiful.

‘She’s keen to branch out now with food fairs and even producing food from the estate. There’s talk of her opening a restaurant at the castle.

‘Dominic’s poured hundreds of thousands into it but she thinks she can make a living out of it.’  

It was previously reported that landscape designer Catherine is preparing to end their relationship as the screen star, is said to have admitted to having feelings for Lily, 31. 

The claims came just weeks after Dominic and his long-term partner staged a photo opportunity outside their Wiltshire home and told reporters: 'Our marriage is strong and we're very much still together.' 

'It's a huge thing': Dominic's 10-year marriage to his wife Catherine (pictured last month) is reportedly 'as good as over' after photos emerged of him with actress Lily James

'It's a huge thing': Dominic's 10-year marriage to his wife Catherine (pictured last month) is reportedly 'as good as over' after photos emerged of him with actress Lily James

Claims: According to reports, the screen star, 51, is said to have admitted to having feelings for the thespian, 31, following their cosy holiday to Rome last month (pictured)

Claims: According to reports, the screen star, 51, is said to have admitted to having feelings for the thespian, 31, following their cosy holiday to last month (pictured)

A source told The Sun: 'Catherine has told those closest to her that Dominic has admitted having feelings for Lily.

'At first it seemed as though the whole thing was just a one-off but Catherine has since said it's become obvious it was more than that. Catherine feels crushed by it, naturally. It's a huge thing to be coming to terms with.

'She has since told the people closest to her their marriage is as good as over now and she doesn't think there is a way past this.'  

MailOnline has contacted representatives for Dominic and Lily for further comment. 

The end? Sources have said the landscape designer, 49, is preparing to call off their relationship (pictured in 2015)

The end? Sources have said the landscape designer, 49, is preparing to call off their relationship (pictured in 2015)

'Our marriage is strong and we're very much still together': The claims came just weeks after Dominic and his long-term partner staged a photo opportunity outside their Wiltshire home

'Our marriage is strong and we're very much still together': The claims came just weeks after Dominic and his long-term partner staged a photo opportunity outside their Wiltshire home

Body language expert Judi James claims Dominic and Catherine struck a 'denial pose'

Dominic West and his wife struck a 'denial pose' and went in for a 'contrived-looking' kiss in echoes of 'unfaithful politicians trying to save their careers', body language expert Judi James claims

She told MailOnline: 'Whether prompted by guilt or actual innocence, the denial ritual is notoriously and historically one of the trickiest non-verbal performances to pull off,' she explained. 

'A favourite of face-and-career-saving politicians, who would often involve their entire family in the Walton’s-style shots, the public have become cynical as a result of so many of them emerging just prior to a split.'    

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TV and film stars Dominic and Lily became the subject of worldwide scrutiny, when the images emerged showing the pair enjoying an al fresco lunch with their mutual agent, Angharad Wood.  

Lily and Dominic enjoyed a two-day vacation in where they were seen riding on a scooter through , and The Affair star appeared to at one point lean over and kiss her neck.

A source told MailOnline they spent two nights in a suite at the top Hotel De La Ville with a panoramic view over the city and just at two minutes walk from the Spanish steps. Just days later, the father-of-five and his wife defended their marriage.

This came hours after Catherine told friends she was 'heartbroken' over the images, which went viral, 

The shell-shocked mother-of-four had clutched a tissue in her hand as she gingerly stepped out of the marital home in Chippenham, Wiltshire with her husband by her side, hiding her ring finger in her jeans pocket.

Dominic's ring was off as it had been for his weekend with Lily.  

It was previously reported that Catherine held crisis talks with her family over the future of her marriage. 

The couple - who tied the knot in June 2010 after reuniting following their university romance - share Dora, 13, Senan, 12, Francis, 11, and Christabel, seven, together, while the Sheffield native has another daughter Martha, 21, with former girlfriend, aristocrat, Polly Astor.

Bizarre: The couple handed out this note to reporters insisting they were together

Bizarre: The couple handed out this note to reporters insisting they were together 

Before and after: Dominic with his wedding ring on (left) and without it in Rome (right)

Missing something? Dominic's ring-free hand was clear to see as he caressed Lily's face

Before and after: Dominic with his ring on (left) and without it in (right)

Now this is awkward: Catherine's landscape design website suffered an 'embarrassing’ website blunder recently which seemed to reflect the nature of that morning's outing

Now this is awkward: Catherine's landscape design website suffered an 'embarrassing’ website blunder recently which seemed to reflect the nature of that morning's outing 

A fortnight ago, old Etonian West confirmed his wife Catherine, had gone away, but explained: 'She's on a work trip. She's gone by herself.'

When asked if they were still together, he laughed: 'Of course we are. Our relationship is fine.' 

While Catherine was posting on Instagram, Lily met her long-time pal Dominic Cooper and another diner inside a restaurant in London on Tuesday night, in her first outing since her scandal erupted. 

Up until Thursday, when the UK went into lockdown, London was in Tier Two, the rules of which include: 'You must not meet socially indoors with family or friends unless they are part of your household or support bubble', however Lily has claimed to MailOnline that the dinner was a business meeting - which is permitted.

Funny business! While Catherine was posting on Instagram, Lily met her long-time pal Dominic Cooper and another diner inside a restaurant in London on Tuesday night, in her first outing since her scandal erupted

Giddy: Up until Thursday, when the UK went into lockdown, London was in Tier Two, the rules of which include: 'You must not meet socially indoors with family or friends unless they are part of your household or support bubble'

Funny business! While Catherine was posting on Instagram, Lily met her long-time pal Dominic Cooper and another diner inside a restaurant in London on Tuesday night, in her first outing since her scandal erupted

The Rebecca actress was seen laughing and joking while eating inside the Lemonia Greek restaurant in Primrose Hill, north London, with good friend and Mamma Mia co-star Dominic, 42, and another diner. 

Meanwhile, Dominic made his feelings on infidelity quite clear during an Evening Standard interview, back in 2016, when he asked the reporter why wives make such a fuss over infidelity.

He said: 'I really do. It's daft to kick someone out over a fling. Isn't it? Everyone should turn a blind eye to men's behaviour between the ages of 40 and 50. Let it all blow over.' 

'It was all me': Dominic previously reflected on dating the mother of his eldest child Polly Astor - a romance he gave up on due to being a self-proclaimed ladies man (pictured in 2009)

'It was all me': Dominic previously reflected on dating the mother of his eldest child Polly Astor - a romance he gave up on due to being a self-proclaimed ladies man (pictured in 2009)

'September scenes': Dominic West's smiling wife Catherine picked hydrangeas in an Instagram picture posted at Glin castle last week after 'holding marriage crisis talks'

'September scenes': Dominic West's smiling wife Catherine picked hydrangeas in an Instagram picture posted at Glin castle last week after 'holding marriage crisis talks'

The director also told Harper's Bazaar when promoting The Affair that monogamy is 'not the necessarily natural way to be'. 

He shared: 'It's one of those subjects that people have very strong opinions about because everybody is open to it and can experience it. It affects kings as much as it does snails. A lot of people have experienced it and a lot of people fear it. 

'I suppose people suspect that the conventions that we have agreed upon in society, that a man and women can stay together for life or a certain amount of time without cheating, that they're not really staying together based on anything other than how society thinks they should behave.'

Role: Dominic is best known for playing Noah Solloway in Showtime drama, The Affair, which explores the emotional effects of an extramarital relationship between his character and Alison Bailey (Ruth Wilson)

Role: Dominic is best known for playing Noah Solloway in Showtime drama, The Affair, which explores the emotional effects of an extramarital relationship between his character and Alison Bailey (Ruth Wilson)

Working together: Lily and Dominic are set to star in Emily Mortimer’s adaptation of Nancy Mitford’s celebrated novel The Pursuit Of Love for the BBC featuring Emily Beecham & Andrew Scott - filming began in July

Connection: The three part romantic comedy-drama about love and friendship is filming on location in the Bristol and Bath area and at The Bottle Yard Studios

Working together: Lily and Dominic are set to star in Emily Mortimer's adaptation of Nancy Mitford's celebrated novel The Pursuit Of Love for the BBC featuring Emily Beecham & Andrew Scott - filming began in July 

Moreover, in 2012, he told Femail that he gave up Catholicism for women because of 'all those rules about sex'. 

Last week, landscape gardener Catherine had a big smile on her face in a new Instagram picture of herself picking flowers at her ancestral home, Glin castle in Ireland, which was captioned: 'September scenes: Picking hydrangeas.'

The picture was shared on the account on Wednesday, but taken before her husband, 51, was pictured looking very cosy with Lily in .  

Not one comment on the picture referred to Dominic's snaps, leading to a suggestion that comments had been moderated.    

Background: Last month, it was announced that the actress had split from Matt Smith, 37, for good after a failed attempt to rekindle their five-year romance in lockdown (pictured in 2018)

Background: Last month, it was announced that the actress had split from Matt Smith, 37, for good after a failed attempt to rekindle their five-year romance in lockdown (pictured in 2018)

Brunette Lily dated The Crown star Matt Smith, 38, on and off for five years, with the relationship said to be over for cook just weeks before she was pictured with West. 

In July, she was pictured enjoying a night out and a cosy park date in London with hunky Captain America star Chris Evans,

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