Katherine Ryan has detailed how one of her husband's ex-girlfriends slid into his direct messages just days after they welcomed their son Fred.
The comedian, 37, who describes herself as calm and collected, said she would never have considered sending a similar message to the one her husband received.
Speaking on her Telling Everybody Everything podcast, Katherine explained how the former flame messaged Bobby to say she had a mutual friend with Katherine's ex.
Candid: Katherine Ryan has detailed how one of her husband's ex-girlfriends slid into his direct messages just days after they welcomed their son Fred
The message arrived just six days after she welcomed her first child with Bobby, which they had announced on their respective social media pages.
Discussing the private message, Katherine revealed she is not someone who is 'easily riled', but feared for her mental health after giving birth to her second child.
She said: 'I thought: "Oh no, I love being peaceful, what if that is taken away from me?" Don't worry, it wasn't. I have remained cool, calm and collected.
'But. Two days ago something occurred in my relationship which threatened that peace. I had a baby six days before so I was having some human feelings.
'Less of my robot – always happy – always calm self. More vulnerable to human emotions I guess. I thought… how interesting. I paid attention to these feelings.
Honest: The comedian, 37, who describes herself as calm and collected, said she would never have considered sending a similar message to the one her husband received
'So…my husband receives a DM on Instagram from a woman that he casually dated after having met on one of those apps and this is years ago. We have been married for two years so before that when he was living in Canada and single so whatever.'
Reading out the message she said: 'This message said: "Oh hey, small world. I have a mutual friend with one of your wife's exes."
Katherine admitted at this point she felt she had 'two choices' of whether to react to the message or not, her initially instinct being to tell the woman to 'get off her lawn'.
The Duchess actress revealed she didn't think the ex had done anything wrong as it was a 'lovely, friendly' message, but it wouldn't be something she'd do herself.
Family: Speaking on her Telling Everybody Everything podcast, Katherine explained how the former flame messaged Bobby to say she had a mutual friend with Katherine's ex
She said: 'Would I look on social media and see someone I casually dated just had a baby with their wife six days ago. Would I message them? No. I am not an animal. Some of us were raised by wolves. I never would have sent that message but fine.'
Katherine went on to reveal that the reason she had a negtive feeling about the message was because her ex had been brought up so soon after having a baby.
She said #I did not like that. I had just had a baby and now the demon was brought into the room.
#There are certain exes I don't talk to or talk about. I don't want to hear their names. This is an ex who doesn't like me. Won't have nice things to say about me. And I didn't like that.
''I didn't like that she was like… "we have this ex of hers as a mutual friend." I know that wouldn't have been a complimentary conversation.
'There is no way this person would have been like: "I love Katherine. Great break up. Totally demolished me. I had a great experience with her."
