My wife, Clare, and I are both in our 60s. Our children have grown up and left home so we thought that by now our lives would be slowing down. Yet we seem to be busier than ever.
We talk about wanting to do less, but the fact that we can’t decide what to cut back on — fewer Zoom calls, fewer projects or fewer Instagram posts — suggests we are happy as we are.
And that seems to be true of a lot of busy people. Although we moan about not having enough hours in the day to get things done (busy people like to brag about how busy they are), a recent study concluded that having more free time does not necessarily make people happier, while having lots of spare time can make us positively unhappy.
The findings, from the University of Pennsylvania, were based on a questionnaire filled out by more than 21,000 Americans; they were asked to provide a detailed account of what they did during the day and to score their sense of wellbeing — how good they felt about their lives.
Although we moan about not having enough hours in the day to get things done (busy people like to brag about how busy they are), a recent study concluded that having more free time does not necessarily make people happier
The researchers found that people who had very little free time were the least happy and that, as free time increased, so did the sense of wellbeing.
But this levelled off once people had about two hours of free time (time they could spend how they wanted, without work or domestic chores) a day, and began to decline if they had more than five hours.
Why? It stands to reason that being busy gives us a sense of purpose. It also helps keep our brains in good shape.
Proof of this comes from a number of studies, including one carried out a few years ago by the University of Texas. They asked middle-aged and elderly volunteers to do brain tests and fill in a ‘busyness’ questionnaire.
This included questions such as: how often do you have too many things to do each day to actually get them all done? How often do you have so many things to do that you go to bed later than your regular bedtime?
They found, not surprisingly, that people tend to get less busy as they get older, and that women of all ages seem busier than men.
They also discovered that busy people of all ages in the study had better working memories (the ability to hold more than one thing in your mind at the same time); better episodic memories (the ability to recall past events); and greater processing speed, i.e. their brains seemed to be working faster.
Researchers found that people who had very little free time were the least happy and that, as free time increased, so did the sense of wellbeing. But this levelled off once people had about two hours of free time
The researchers put this down to people with busy lifestyles being out in the world, having new experiences and meeting new people — all of which is more mentally demanding than being at home trying to decide which programme to watch on Netflix.
They also suggest that because busy people are often having to learn new things, this leads to the growth of new brain cells, particularly in the hippocampus, the area of the brain linked to memory.
Studies have shown that spending your spare time struggling with a new language, or a mentally challenging physical activity, such as dancing, is really good for the middle-aged brain.
The downside of being busy is that it can be stressful, particularly if you have to work long hours or don’t have control over what you do in your spare time. It also means that you may not be carving out time to meet with friends and family.
And that’s bad because maintaining close relationships is hugely important for our physical and mental wellbeing.
We know this from research such as the Harvard Longitudinal Study, one of the longest human studies ever carried
