By Mark Clattenburg for the Daily Mail
Published: 22:30 GMT, 12 February 2020 | Updated: 23:03 GMT, 12 February 2020
I had a similar incident with Adam Lallana when he was playing for Southampton in a match at Everton.
He was giving me some stick and I probably had reason to send him off, but I chose to try to diffuse the situation by saying to him, 'You're different since you played for England'.
He was a nice guy but it was true, he had changed!
Southampton made a complaint after Adam Lallana