The positive, on this most blasted night? Only that, with this young England team, it is unlikely to be 55 years before the nations treads this path again.
And they may be better prepared the next time, if it is soon enough. These players, even this manager, hardened and experienced by nights like this; defeats at the hands of opponents who ultimately held their nerve in this most unforgiving of arenas. Who knew the course and distance, even far from Rome. Italy won by penalty shoot-out. Maybe they edged the match, too. They are further ahead of where England stand now. Just. But perhaps they won’t always be.
Bukayo Saka was inconsolable at the end. He missed the vital one, the fifth. But Jadon Sancho and Marcus Rashford missed, too. Italy won 3-2 from the spot. It wasn’t the highest quality contest. Too much at stake, as always.
The rest of it will feel too raw right now, too painful. England led from early but were worn down by Italy’s press and pressure. Ultimately, though, the best team won. Italy shaded it, but open play could not separate them. So it came down to penalties. Again. It almost made it worse, that sinking feeling as the match ebbed away.
Jadon Sancho could only bury his head in his hands as he came off the bench but missed a penalty in the dramatic shootout
Marcus Rashford was also sent on for the shootout but he was left devastated after his penalty went wide of the Italy target
Rashford saw goalkeeper Gianluigi Donnarumma dive to his left and he sent his effort to the other corner but struck the post
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Leonardo Bonucci was on hand to poke in for an equaliser as Italy came from behind to level against England at Wembley
The Juventus and Italy defender stood on the advertising boards in front of Italy's supporters to celebrate his crucial goal
England goalkeeper Jordan Pickford urged team-mates to switch on again after seeing their lead disappear to Italy
Italy's players rallied around Bonucci after the goal and they looked to take control of the final on Sunday at Wembley
Luke Shaw sparked wild celebrations after his goal inside 120 seconds gave England a dream start in the Euro 2020 final
Shaw found himself unmarked at the back post and he struck the ball sweetly on the half-volley to fire England into a 1-0 lead
Italy goalkeeper Gianluigi Donnarumma (right) could do little to react in time as the Manchester United full-back struck first
Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, along with their son George, were captured celebrating the early goal for England
Shaw (left) has enjoyed a brilliant tournament and he raced off with his arms outstretched to celebrate the opening goal
Anyone who has ever trotted out the cliché about an early goal settling the nerves has plainly never scored one in the opening two minutes of a final. Did it hell. If anything, Luke Shaw scoring from England's first attack of the game actually increased the tension, because now Gareth Southgate's players really had something to lose.
Yet would it have been any different, whatever had happened? Probably not. England have not travelled this path often, if at all in most lifetimes.
There was a mania around the stadium, a frenzy. Footage of ticketless fans storming the perimeter fences, gaining legal entry to the stadium. UEFA denied it. Those with eyes on the place would contest they lied. Social distancing in the upper tiers was not replicated below. People stood wherever they could to get a view. Was it Covid safe? Of course not. If UEFA admitted that, the game couldn't go ahead. So they pretended what we all saw happen, did not happen.
And then something equally unbelievable unfolded before our eyes. England scored, from their first attack. Given what happened from their last attack in a major tournament final, that made it two goals in little more than two minutes in consecutive Wembley finals. The problem being they were 55 years apart.
Italy's players, including Federico Chiesa (right), were left stunned by the early set-back as England took immediate control
Italy boss Roberto Mancini (right) wore a scowl as he watched his side's Plan A crumble following Shaw's early finish
There was overwhelming support inside Wembley Stadium for England as there was huge demand for the Euro 2020 final
Mason Mount once again started, this time as part of a front three, and he was paid plenty of attention by Italy's defenders
Prime Minister Boris Johnson (right) posed for a photo at Wembley in an England shirt alongside Hollywood star Tom Cruise (second from right), former England goalkeeper Peter Shilton (second from left) and Culture Secretary Oliver Dowden (left)
Ironically, the goal came when many feared nerves were affecting England, too. Harry Maguire had misjudged his first pass of the game and put it out for an Italian corner.
Yet no sooner had the locals turned to each other to opine sagely that England needed to settle down, ease into the game, relax, the ball was in the back of the net. What a move it was too, started and finished by one of the men of the tournament for England – Luke Shaw.
He began by feeding Harry Kane, who was in a
