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The Ukrainian refugee who has been dumped by her British lover she seduced under the nose of his partner when she moved into their home has broken her silence about the heartbreaking split.
Sofiia Karkadym, 22, says she is devastated after father-of-two Tony Garnett, 30, ended their four-month relationship - and at her arrest for trying to kick down the door of their rented property and screaming 'Tony, I love you' last night.
Speaking exclusively to MailOnline, Sofiia said: ‘I am lost. I am heartbroken and I still have feelings for Tony.
‘I have nobody here. No home, and no money. I have no friends. I am staying here in a disgusting place which the police have put me into in Bradford.’
She said she had been warned by police not to contact Tony, either by telephone, messaging or personally, and if she broke those conditions she would be re-arrested and charged.
The blonde IT manager has already been detained twice by police and held under suspicion of coercive and controlling behaviour. Her latest detention came last night outside Tony’s rented Bradford cottage.
He urged police not to press charges. After she allegedly, click the front door, his house and began screaming.
Sofiia Karkadym is arrested by police after trying to kick down the front door of her British lover who dumped her. She told the MailOnline she is 'lost' and still had feelings for Tony Garnett
Tony Garnett, 30, left his partner of ten years for Ukrainian refugee Sofiia Karkadym, 22, after 10 days of her living with them. They have split, MailOnline can reveal
She told MailOnline: ‘ I never hurt Tony. I never attacked him. I was very upset about somethings regarding his partner, Lorna and their children.
’But he promised he will look after me and make everything alright.
’We were going to get married, but I knew that he could not have any more children( he has had a vasectomy which he stated he was going to reverse) and I thought we could have kids in five or six years' time.
’But now I don’t not know what to do. I will probably go back. But I am very upset.
‘I dreamed of my life with Tony. I do not understand how this has happened.
‘He hasn’t allowed me to go to our own house and got me arrested twice because I wanted to talk to him in private.
‘He broke up with me through a message and has thrown me out on the streets and doesn’t care where I am of if I am safe.
‘He is showing a completely different face to what he was showing before.
‘Tony says that he wants to help people, but he doesn’t care about his partner and he has just thrown me out.’
The couple were making plans to visit Sofiia's family back in Ukraine so that Tony can formally ask her father for his daughter's hand in marriage. Tony has said their relationship is over
She said the knife incident, which Tony had said scared him,’ happened two months ago and he wasn’t even in the house.
He told police the knife incident happened at the weekend which involved her stabbing the kitchen wall.
She admitted she had put the knife into the wall.
She added: ‘ I was just angry because of the situation with his wife (partner and mother of his two daughters).
‘He didn’t seem to care about us, about our future, he was always talking about his children. He f- - - - - d up our relationship.’
She revealed that she had fled Ukraine, after having been in a violent relationship, where her jaw was broken, by an ex Ukrainian partner and that she was unsure how she would be able to settle back in Ukraine while it was at war with Russia.
Tony Garnett at his Bradford home with his ex-girlfriend's luggage and belongings in bin liners waiting to be collected
Sofiia had allegedly been told by police to stay away after Tony called officers to an earlier bust-up on Saturday night when he told her their four-month relationship was over.
She left the home they had previously shared, but returned last night when neighbours heard her yelling at Tony outside, and dialled 999 after she repeatedly kicked the door.
Officers arrived in two vehicles with blue lights flashing, but she scaled a garden wall and disappeared into the night.
Police are said to have searched gardens and local streets with torches before they found her hiding in nearby bushes in Bradford, West Yorkshire.
Exclusive footage shows her being escorted away by two officers while she shouted: 'Tony, I love you. Please come with me'.
After being taken away for questioning, Sofiia was freed without charge.
Tony Garnett, 30, left the mother of his two children, 28-year-old Lorna Garnett (pictured), for Ukrainian refugee Sofiia Karkadym after 10 days. He has now broken up with Sofiia, but Lorna said she 'wouldn't have him back in a million years'
It is understood that she told officers she wants to return to her home country and family.
Her visa which allowed her emergency refugee status for six months, expires in a few weeks.
Tony told MailOnline: ' it is the perfect storm. Her visa runs out and she's got nothing here in this country. She's not with me anymore and she's got no reason to stay.
'I did not want her to be charged with anything. I think she has been through a lot and you have to at least sympathise with the fact that she's from a country which has been invaded.
'She is from Lviv which hasn't really been affected as much as other parts of Ukraine. So hopefully she'll be safe back with her family.
MailOnline revealed yesterday how Tony dumped Sofiia over her alleged heavy drinking and claims that she objected to him putting his two daughters before her.
He told how matters came to a head on Saturday night when she allegedly repeatedly stabbed a wall with a knife at their rented house after she got drunk while celebrating his 30th birthday
She had moved in with him and his partner of ten years Lorna Garnett, 28, in Bradford in May after she fled her home in Lviv in war-torn Ukraine and they offered her a place to live.
But just ten days later, Tony moved out with Sofiia after starting a relationship with her, leaving behind Lorna, the mother of his two young daughters.
Tony told how he watched from within the house after Sofiia arrived last night, and urged her to leave before police were called.
In an exclusive interview with MailOnline, he said: 'I feared this might happen, that she would turn up at the house when she had been warned by the police not to.
'She was kicking the front door and shouting and screaming and I tried to talk to her. I had to tell her why our relationship was over.
'In those few minutes I told her that I was scared of what she might do after I'd seen her ram a knife into the wall in the kitchen several times while she was drunk.
Sofiia Karkadym (pictured) arrived in the UK at the start of May after fleeing the war in Ukraine. She was seen kicking the front door of the rented cottage she shared with him, screaming: 'I love you Tony'
'I am a security guard and I can look after myself, but I don't like violence. And I was worried that she gets very angry.
'It was my 30th birthday at the weekend and she ruined it by getting very aggressive after drinking too much and then the incident with a knife happened in the kitchen.
'I have decided that I don't want to be in a relationship
